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goes soft during intercourse? Pains in his penis?
so the past few times that ive been having sex with my boyfriend, within the first 2 minutes he feels like he`s about to cum, so he has to keep stopping for 5 seconds each time. so when he finally has it under control and hasnt finished, he starts to become really soft and i can get it hard again, but as soon as we start having sex it goes soft again. and he doesnt know why and neither do i..this has never happened before out of the 4 months we`ve been hanging out..it just started happening about 2 weeks ago..its also weird because he used to not finish for at least 10 or 15 minutes into it..and today he just texted me and said he`s having pains in his penis so i dont know..what do you think the problem is
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It is unfortunate but if one is sexually active in today's world one has to be concerned about HIV and STDs. Are your boyfriends problems caused by STDs? Only a doctor and proper testing will give him the answer to that question.
The doctor he needs to see is a Urologist. A Urologist is a specialist who specializes in the treatment of problems of the urinary tract. This would include for a male problems with his penis.
There are many things that could be causing his problem(s). He needs to see a Urologist immediately for the pains in his penis if they are true pans as in any type pains could be very serious.
More important is for you is to be sure you are healthy. No matter what your age, when ever entering a new sexual relationship it is always advisable to be for both of you tested first. The days of one night stands and woodstock, yes I'm that old, are gone for ever as it is to risky to indulge in what was then called free love.
Since the problem your boyfriend is having has had a sudden onset and to protect yourself you need to be tested. Not that your boyfriend has been unfaithful while you two have been dating. Some illnesses have a long incubation time and may just be manifesting themselves.
What are the chances your boyfriends problem is STD related. That depends on how sexually active he was before meeting you.
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If he is experiencing pains in his penis, he should see a doctor immediately. You should both be tested for STDs as well.
When things change suddenly like this, it is always something that you should have checked out immediately.
Please make an appointment for yourself right away. If he refuses to get looked at, you should stop having sex with him, since you know the only reason he won't go is if he is hiding something.
Good luck to you both.
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