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my boyfriend is too lazy and I m sick of it what shd I do?
Hi!My boyfriend and I are 20years old n we are dating since d last 2 and a half yrs..we really love echothr a lot..but he hardly expresses his luv mayb jus on my bday or our anni n dis gets really hard for me bcoz I need to hear every now and den "I luv u" n stuf like dat but nw m over it bcz I ve gone through shit and he was widme through out so I know he luvs me..the prob is he's too lazy..we don't go for dates ever we stay 10mins away from echother stil sometimes we don't meet for 10-12days..i keep nagging but he just says"m too lazy" its been 2 and a half years n can u believe we haven't gone for any bloody vacation..I have many guy frnds n I stay alone so I don't get to travel a lot n when my guyfrnds make a plan n invite me n my boyfriend,my bf asks me to tell them a no cz he's lazy so I miss a luvly vacay.n when i ask him to take me somewher he tells me "no I don feel like goin nywher"its so annoyin..he doesn't go n doesn't letme..m jus so sick n tired of dis behavior..n u know what when we meet he just keeps makin fun of me to make me laugh wich really is funny so I don't mind but nw I jus can't stnd him cz its so pissin off dat I dn gt to spnd time widhim n wen he is widme vr jus crackin stupid jokes n playin arnd..nothing sweet n romantic..m tired of this..what should I do?I don't wanna leav him bcoz he's a gem of a person mean it..he never let's me fall..please help me..also arnd 4-5times he ditched me n kept me waiting bcoz he was out wid his frnds..so dat really makes me think dat maybe he jus pretends to be lazy.I've broken up wid him bcoz of all this around 5times(m too short temprd)but he alwys mkes me gt bak cz for a fact v both do love echothr too much..n all our frnds n family knw abt it..please help me..
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It takes two to make a relationship work not one, If your boyfriend is too lazy to get off his ass and
commit to the relationship then he is to lazy to be in a relationship it's that simple. 10-12 days is a very long time to not see your spouse especially when you both live no more than 15 minutes away. You need to sit down and discuss your concerns with him but you also need to tell him if he doesn't shape up you will walk. This is something he needs to hear nobody needs to stick around for a deadbeat.
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You should re-write this using real words. I don't mean to be unkind, but I doubt anyone would believe you are 20 if you talk to others in this manner.
If you would like to re-write the question like a 20 year old might speak, I would be happy to take the time to read it and respond, as would others.
Thank you.
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