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He frustrates me sometimes what should I do?
There is this guy I like but he gives a lot of mixed signals and it annoys me a lot. Sometimes he nice to me. He smiles he hugs me and gives me a kiss on the cheek and does stuff to make me laugh like say my name funny. And he also stares at me a lot like really a lot its not even funny. But then there are those days when he ignores me. I try to talk to him and he seems uninterested he doesn't hold the conversation long. It feels like I'm trying really hard. It frustrating I really like him and I wanna get closer to him but I hate this 1 day he's nice and then another he blows me off. Does he like me? What do I do?
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There a few possibilities..
He could be trying to play hard to get because he really likes you and doesn't want to scare you off.
Or he has a crush on you but doesn't want to go any further with it so he doesn't want to get your hopes up too much.
Or he just likes to flirt but isn't interested in having a girlfriend.
Regardless of what the situation is, there is one thing that will work. That is giving him a taste of his own medicine. Once you show him that you can live without him and you're not in need of his attention, he will most likely wonder what's going on. The least likely outcome would be that he just doesn't care and moves on, but it doesn't seem like that will happen because he obviously has an interest in you. He will most likely confront you about it and ask you what's wrong. By mimicking exactly the way he acts, you'll show him how confused he's making you and how it's not helping your relationship along. If he really wants to get closer to you, he'll be upset that you're being cold towards him. It's a good way to tell if a guy is really interested or if he's just flirting aimlessly. Good luck and I hope I helped!
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This guy could like you but may have a girlfriend you don't know about, Sometimes when guys like someone they don't know how to act on it. They could be ignoring the situation and be unsure of how to approach it. If you don't like the way he is acting towards you then you could ask him about it. All you can do is try, If he sounds uninterested then maybe back off and give the guy some space. If he likes you and has feelings for you then let him act on it and make the move. If he doesn't come around then I would start to think maybe he was just being friendly.
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