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hey
hello i am lonely becoz i dont have any one to love..not even a mom..i really need a mom to love me..this lonliness is now killing me and now i really feel that i should die
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If you are lonely you really need to get out and find things that interest you and get involved with others with similar interests. For example if you like basketball, join a team. As you interact more with people the closer your bond will become and quickly you will have a group of good friends. You can not take this woe is me attitude. I promise you there is always someone with a worse situation than you. My very good friend lost both her parents at a young age and then as an adult she lost her husband and now has no family at all as she was an only child. But that doesn't hold her back. She has a good job she takes kick boxing lessons, she builds homes for habbitat for humanity, she helps out at the food pantry and a number of other things. Being so active in the community has filled her life with so many people and close friends. So, you can't use not having a mom as an excuse to be lonely. There comes a times when we recognize we are no longer children and we are in charge of our own happiness. It sounds to me that you are comfortable with your lonely state other wise why wouldn't you change it? Have you tried some of the things I've suggested already? Just a side note, do not try to connect with people you don't know in person over the internet. Sites such as facebook can be very decieving. You don't know who you are really talking to and you don't know what their motives are. Get out of the house join some clubs groups, sports, any productive activity. Visit the elderly, they can use a friend and would be so appreciative to have a young person keeping them company. YOu could visit sick children in the hospital. I think once you see how hard life could be you will be thankful for the life you do have despite it not being what you want. It's time for you to take control of your own destiny becuase the only person that can make you happy is you.
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