okay ive been with this guy for 3 years and i like him alot ! yet he flirts like crazy and he says hes not doing anything wrong and for me to worryin cause hes the only girl i like ive told him to stop flirting yet he doesnt he will for a little bit but thats it.. i dont know what to do .. do i go back out with him or not ? i miss him like crazy too
can you deal with him flirting? if you can't, then there's no reason why you should stay in this relationship. If its not making you happy, then what's the point?
You can find better guys out there who WON'T want to flirt with other girls. The only flirting he will do is with YOU. He might respect you more and treat you better. There's most likely better guys out there, but you'll never know unless you try.
But if you feel like him flirting is a minor issue and that you can deal with it and he's worth it, then continue the relationship.
Xui answered Monday July 18 2011, 10:23 pm: It's okay for guys to look at girls but as long as it doesn't go too far.
If your boyfriend is going as far as messaging women, Flirting with other women in front of you while ignoring you and acting as if nothing is wrong then perhaps your boyfriend is taking his flirting habits to a whole new level.
Talk to your boyfriend, Express to him that you feel insulted when he flirts with girls all the time. You didn't give a whole lot of information. Does he do it all the time? How is he flirting with girls? Is it in person or over the internet or via text message? You didn't say...
If you feel he has crossed the line then you need to tell him that, If he denies it and you feel that he went too far and you can't trust him.....Then you move on. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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