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im only 13, i have cut myself over 10 times on the legs, i do when i get angry. i dont know how to get help and i am suicidal. when i figure out what pills to take to put myself to sleep and never wake up than i will take them. does anyone have suggestions to pills to take or how to tell my parents?
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You cut yourself to relieve stress and inner pain which doesn't really work, does it. What you are going through is most likely teenage depression brought on by a hormonal imbalance the primary cause of which is puberty.
When I was your age doctors called this a phase that we would grow out of and for the most part they were correct. Today doctors know this for what it truly is and can help you with hormone replacements while your body works to bring balance to itself.
The hormone imbalance causes depression which also can be helped with the hormone replacement therapy and talk therapy with a good therapist to find out what the stressors are that are causing you to want to cut yourself. Talk therapy together with medication to find the cause of your depression can be dealt with and you will see a light at the end of the tunnel. Life will be much better than what you see today.
How do you tell your parents: You could simply say to them what you told us; That you feel bad, that you are hurting yourself and you need to see a doctor.
Never ever be afraid to tell your parents when something is bothering you or you are not feeling well. It does not matter what is wrong, be it of a particular women's nature or something else. As parents our primary responsibility is to your health and safety. There is nothing about you or that you have done or could do that we have not done ourselves or know about.
I know you have heard this before, though it is worth repeating. We were once your age. There is nothing new under the sun. Meaning whatever you do we have most likely done, know someone who did it or know about it and this includes sex as well. So please don't be afraid to go to your parents when you have questions or something is wrong. They are your best source for answers and help.
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forget about pills and other stuff n just go and talk to your parents dear... your so young you have no idea how awesome life is!!! no matter what happens just remember that "it will pass".. it gonna go away :)anything that happens will happen for the better.. trust me cos i've gone through a lot of hard stuff i'm 20 now and i only got know how all the hard stuff makes me stronger and happier cos i learn from them! no matter how big a problem you have talk it out.. trust me. :)
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