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i cant say i have fully "lost my first love" but im experiencing my first love right now.
me and him have broken up 4 times.... except we always seemed to come back to each other cause we cant fall out of love. im currently in a relationship with him. and i will do anything for him. i understand though because i am COMPLETELY and utterly scared of loosing him. i feel like if i do i will feel alone and die. thats how much i care and love him. i feel like there is no one else out there for me.
Also he was my first. first boyfriend. first kiss. first anything sexual. and we both lost our virginity to each other. (during the time i have kissed other people during the month period that we broke up one time) but it was just NOT THE SAME..... never felt right. actually made me feel gross. and just made me want HIM more. same happend with him... and then we ended up back together. BUT he is moving :( i can drive in 2months or so..... but im scared until then we will grow apart or something will happen and im just really scared of loosing him. he is my first love and i am experiencing it. and it takes over your life completely. HE controls my emotions. if me and him are good. im in a good mood. if me and him are fighting i feel dead and become anti social. i havent realized it was a mistake. i dont think it is since it is both our first love and first alot of things with each other. and i can just say i cant picture myself with anyone else.
the odds are we either stay on and off or together and end up marrying each other.
or something happens and we will loose each other ... but i am so afraid of that cause i cant picture my life without him or anyone else.
sometimes i wonder though by his words and actions if he loves me as much as i love him............... thats the only wondering i regret. (putting my hear out if he isnt loving me as much as i am)
actual i know for a fact that i show my love in a different way than he does and i am more emotional and like to talk and am very open with my feelings. yet when he hurts me i close up and makeit hard to let people in.
think im crazy or not but im feeling all this at age 16. im a 16 year old girl and please dont say im to young or dont know what love is cause i do..... i know this is love. but im just not sure wether or not i will be okay throughout this whole thing.
i reallly needed to vent and finally say this out loud.
i would really appreciate peoples opinion on what i just wrote. (link)
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first of all i think first love is SO OVER RATED!!!! love is love first or last.... i think just let him move.. give each other some space..by space i not only mean giving each other but give your mind a break too. Maybe if you let your mind free of all those thoughts related to him. you can have the opportunity to ACTUALLY think without your mind being clogged by emotional turmoil u go through cos of the breaking up and patching up. relax! i am going to say you are too young not because you talk about love but because you are too young to go through all this weariness at this age.... if you both survive the distance then its worth everything you are feeling.. cheer up and enjoy life as it comes! :)
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im only 13, i have cut myself over 10 times on the legs, i do when i get angry. i dont know how to get help and i am suicidal. when i figure out what pills to take to put myself to sleep and never wake up than i will take them. does anyone have suggestions to pills to take or how to tell my parents? (link)
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forget about pills and other stuff n just go and talk to your parents dear... your so young you have no idea how awesome life is!!! no matter what happens just remember that "it will pass".. it gonna go away :)anything that happens will happen for the better.. trust me cos i've gone through a lot of hard stuff i'm 20 now and i only got know how all the hard stuff makes me stronger and happier cos i learn from them! no matter how big a problem you have talk it out.. trust me. :)
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ok well 3 questions about dating guys
note im 13 and a chic :)
1.im dating my best friends cousin and hes a 14 and he lives in a whole different state and i need advice should i keep dating him(i love him and he loves me)
2.theres this guy who is 17 and he likes me and he told his friend that he would do something nasty with me and he barley knows me and he keeps sayin im beatiful and things like that.
3.there is this other guy and hes my other friends cousin and he likes me 2 and well he keeps pretending to be my friend on facebook or when im txting her and he knows how i feel bout my boyfriend and yet he keeps calling me cutie or sexy ,baby,and even sexy lady.
note im only 13 and the 1st and 3rd dudes are turning 14 and the 2nd is 17!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thank ya -angie (link)
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first of all, i think your too young to understand relationship n stuff, but its always good to have someone to talk to that you like n understand you...so maybe you can call that "love" if you want. i think you should stick to the first guy...or go with the last guy if you think things with the first guy aren't working out.. but the 17 year old is not at all a good option.. sounds like a nasty guy! why is he interested in a 13 year old anyway!!!!!!!!!!??
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