Member Since: July 19, 2011
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Last Update: July 19, 2011
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21 female
I've known this guy whose 18 for a long time. I haven't always been close with him. Just recently we've started "talking"
But now it freaks me out. I'm the kind of girl that when someone likes you, you run away. But he treats me sooo good. I still live with my parents but they went out of town last weekend and so he came and stayed with me because I don't like being alone. Well he made the bed, he did the dishes and took out the trash even when I told him not to. He bought me dinner. He doesn't try to hook up with me, he knows that's not what I want. He respects me. He's everything a girl could ever want.
But why is it that I am losing feelings for him now? Is he too nice to me? He tells me I'm beautiful at least 20 times a day and for some reason that freaks me out. He tells me all the time he likes me. So why am I suddenly feeling annoyed by him? And now I seem to start thinking he's not even cute anymore. What's wrong with me!!! I couldn't ask for a better guy, so why am I so afraid?
I don't know what to do. I know if I told him I wasn't interested and let him go, I'd miss him to death and probably wouldn't come across another guy who treats me like he does. I'd be letting go of a great thing. But if I continue to be with him, I don't want to hurt him if things don't work out and my feelings for him go away.
Any advice? :\ (link)
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Well.......
Tell him that him expressing his feelings ALL THE TIME is kinda freaking you out ( but say it in a gentle NICE way )
Then if all goes well continue your friendship with him. Maybe if he quiets down onthe love everyday you won't be as freaked out bye him.
Hope this helps :)
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im 16 and scared to death to open my mouth that i cut myself about 3 different times .. i still hav cuts on my wristbut there not that bad ... do i still have to tell them i havent did it in like 2 mouths but i think about it sometimes.. i still cry myself to sleep .. i took pills to try to goto sleep forever but they didnt work ... do i tell them or not .. i think im ok now tho (link)
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Omg u should tell ! U should not want to be putting yourself to sleep FOREVER ! girl tell ! Please ......!
Hope you get better
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This thirteen year old kid who lives across the street is in love with me. I am sixteen. I think he is adorable and he looks much older than he really is but I think it is screwed up that I am attracted to him. I feel like such a creep. (link)
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Don't worry you are not a creep AT ALL ! if you really think about it adults are like that ALL the time ! They either date or get married and one is almost ALWAYS older than the other from either 1 or many more years ! Just remember love it blind love doesn't care about AGE or LOOKS, really love is about personality, if your really that attracted to him then go ahead date him ! This guy he is a year younger than me I had a crush on him and he has a crush on me ! But like u said LOVE IS BLIND !
Hope this helps ! :)
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