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Ex's Friend flirting!


Question Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 6:52 pm

My ex broke up with me just over a year ago, we didn't stay friends (my choice) as I felt it was the best way to move on. A few weeks later one of his friends messaged me and was flirting etc, it didn't lead anywhere as I dismissed it but he wanted it to and since then we've remained friends, although he still will often hint that he likes me as more than a friend.

A year down the line and a different friend of my ex is flirting with me. I know my ex doesnt know about either of his friends contacting me because he wouldn't be able to keep his mouth shut about it and they don't flirt in front of him, I'm just wondering why his friends are choosing me to ask out?? even a year down the line?


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Xui answered Saturday July 16 2011, 8:07 pm:
His friends probably figure a year is enough time to let it all blow over, However I really recommend not dating any of his friends. Dating a friend of your ex is never a good idea. It leads to drama, Jealousy and stress.

Your ex may still like you it's very possible but lets face it normally when a relationship ends it rarely ever works out the second time. Your best may of been to just go your separate ways instead of getting involved in a friendship.

Now on the other hand, If you want to date one of his friends then go for it but be prepared to have some sort of huge blowout between all of you. Nobody can tell you that you can't date whoever you want too date and a year is a hell of a long time to still dwell on the past.

If you really want my opinion.........Stay away from him and his friends, Start clean by meeting new people.

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