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Hello,
i am a 17 year old female and i have a problem i need to try and deal with.. somehow. I dont like the way my vagina looks at all. My labia is almost an inch long and i find it sickening, none of my friends are this way and people make fun of them all the time becasue apperently were "loose" but ive been this way since i was 7. How can men possibly like this? if i were a man.. i wouldn't.
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First, and this is the honest truth; the size of your labia has nothing to do with how tight or loose the inside of your vagina is, and any guy who has ever been inside of a vagina knows this.
Second, in my experience (and I was an exotic dancer for more than ten years, so I would know), I have rarely met a girl who was happy with the way her vagina looked. I know this doesn't make you feel any better about yours, but at least you know almost everyone feels this way. You are a straight woman, and therefore vaginas are not appealing to you-the less the better as far as you're concerned, but guys definately do not feel that way.
Thirdly, and most important--men love labias!! It's really true. If anything, they dislike the girls who have little labias. Why? Because labias show you are a grown woman, where vaginas with little labias, or no labias very often turn guys off because they look child-like. No normal guy wants to be reminded of their four year old little sister when they're getting ready to have sex. To men, the more vagina the better! (of course, within reason...nobody's attracted to big ol' sloppy ones, but inch-long labias hardly qualify as sloppy.) The term guys use for labias like yours (and I'm sorry for being crass, but it's true) is "roast beef." What guy do you know who doesn't like roast beef? To you, your vagina looks out of control terrible, but to them, it looks oh-so appealing. When a man imagines sex with a woman with big labias, he is not, for one second, thinking about a loose vagina, he is thinking about how her labia acts as a kind of extra sex toy that gently caresses the part of his penis that is either just coming out, or just going into the vagina. In fact, you will find that sometimes your labia actually makes your vagina tighter and harder to get into unless they are well-moistened.
You know what's best about labias? They give you privacy! You may think those girls with small labias look so great, but try checking them out when they are spread eagle...seriously, you can see all up in there. Before sex, it's kind of embarrassing that someone can see inside, but after sex....whew! There's a wide open vagina right there...practically echoing! When a guy has just pulled his penis out he gets a good look at an excited vagina that is still kind of open and stretched out from sex. Thanks to your labia, you're not going to give them a view of your tonsils.
Most of the time when you look at your vagina it is when you are just getting out of the shower. Your labia lips are very much like men's balls, in the fact that heat makes them expand, so when you see them, they are at their most expanded from the hot shower.
I hope this helps, because seriously, guys really, really, really like labias. I have a labia that is the same size as yours, and I'm very grateful for it.
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