so there are these guys that i flirt with alot and they are brothers, but they dont know that im flirting with both of them, i let it get outta hand, like lead them both on and now they both tell me that they like me and i have feelings for both of them too now i dont know what i should do they are both really nice guys. one is a year older than me and one is a year younger... im 16......please help!!
dee0121 answered Sunday July 17 2011, 1:20 am: Ok honestly you should pick none. If they were just friends it would be easier to pick let the other down easy maybe even remain friends, however brothers, oh no girl you playing with fire. Plus you are aware yourself you let it get out of hand. The last thing you want is both to end up hating you and then each other, I think you would be in a bigger mess if you pick one or if you stay confused and continue to lead on, distance yourself and let things die down. see what happens, maybe you are meant to be with one of them but for right now, stay away. Good Luck!!!! [ dee0121's advice column | Ask dee0121 A Question ]
YoungMommy answered Friday July 15 2011, 11:04 am: If you keep doing this you are going to cause problems not just for yourself but for them. You are going to tear their relationship with eachother apart. My advice pick one or none. Its not right or fair for you to lead them both on. [ YoungMommy's advice column | Ask YoungMommy A Question ]
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