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my body
Hello,
i am a 17 year old female. The problem i have is with my Vagina. I do not like the way it looks and i have not talked to people about it, which makes it harder to deal with. My labia is about an inch long and i have no idea why. It was like this long before i got intimate. I know my boyfriend doesnt "mind" it but i cant see how he secretly doesn't like it, if i were him i wouldnt like it. Im thinking about getting surgery becuase i dont want to be made fun of, im an attractive, TIGHT, girl... i dont feel like this is what i should look like :(
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Hun, if you 'feel' it's wrong, there isn't much I can tell you except that your feeling is inaccurate and silly.
It's normal. What you describe is perfectly within normal. If your boyfriend doesn't like it he's an ignorant, judgemental fool. But the truth Is that it's unlikely he's even noticed, let alone that he cares.
Now, you are a sexually active young woman, so you should have seen a doctor once or twice for a full gyno exam anyways -- if you won't take it from me, ask your doctor. This is exactly how you are SUPPOSED to look.
We all have moments when we think our bodies are wierd or not good enough, and most of the time we are obsessing over things that are perfectly normal and that no one else, not even out most intimate partners, will ever even think of.
If you want expensive surgery because it will make you 'feel' better, that's silly, but not necessarily wrong. It might make you feel better, but it won't make you any more normal -- you are already normal.
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