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I want to use a vibrator so I can be sure a penis will fit easily my first time
k so im 16 and still a virgin, i masterbate all the time but only with my fingers...i want to use a vibrator because im scared that when i do it the first time the penis wont fit, so do you recommend i use a vibrator and if i use a vibrator does that mean im not a virgin anymore??? Please help!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
I was only 17 when I lost my virginity and too be honest it was wayyyy too soon, and it ruins a lot for you and takes a tole on your emotions and body, especially when you may not be with the person you had sex with for a long time.
I was the same way when I was younger. In most places you have to be 18 or older to buy sex toys. The fact you are not 18 you can use simple things around the house but make sure the object is sanitary. Otherwise stick to your fingers it's healthier. You are still a virgin whether you use something in the house, a vibrator, or you fingers. No matter the tightness of your vagina, the penis will fit because the skin fits to it and stretches to the shape and size.
Do some research online or ask your mom or parents about sex, even a sex ed teacher. Don't be embarrassed because in the end being educated about it is all worth it. (:
Good luck!
- bwest<3
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If you use a vibrator, You are still a virgin. You will be a virgin until you come into sexual contact with another person. Is it a bad thing to be a virgin? No. Having sex is not a race, I didn't end up having sex until I was almost 18 years old. Sex isn't about loosing your virginity, It is about sharing something special between two people that trust one another and been together for a long time. As for a penis, Vagina's stretch and trust me you won't have a problem getting it in. A women gives birth to a baby......That should tell you something. I really would recommend reading up on some information before you think about having sex.
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Masturbating (no matter the size and girth of whatever you use) does not take your virginity away. Until you have penetrative sex with a man, you'll still be a virgin.
Sex toys are a good way to solve your problem. There are different styles and sizes out there. I suggest you start with something smaller and progressively increase the size to the average girth of a penis.
Take your time and relax. Remember you are stretching your hymen. For some it takes longer than others and if you tense up it'll make it all the more tight and unpleasant.
Ensure you use plenty of lubricant, you're sufficiently aroused (this causes the cervix to lift and the inside to become longer making penetration more comfortable), and listen to your body in terms of what feels right and what does not.
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