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Question Posted Thursday July 14 2011, 4:33 pm

Hello,
I notices that you were a guy and if i need advice from anyone, i think a guy would be most suitable. I am 17 and i am VERY self contious about myself. This is ackward to say but.. my Labia is longer than i have seen before, it is about an inch long and i dont know why, when i was around 7 it just happened and it ruined my self asteem even more. I know its i guess "normal" but all my friends have "clam" vaginas and my current boyfriend has been with only 2 other girls and i have seen both of there vaginas and its NOTHING like mine i feel vulgur and nasty about it, i need help to make myself better about this becuase im not at all. and it doesnt help being one of the prettiest girls in school, all my friends are sluts and everyone wonders why i have no much "respect for myself" when its really the complete opposite. My BF hasnt said anything about it but he is a VERY sexual guy and it scares me becusae i would be if i didnt have a PENIS LOOKING THING on my vagina :\

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adviceman49 answered Thursday July 14 2011, 5:39 pm:
I'm a little confused. You start talking about your libia but your last sentence makes me think you actualy mean your clit. It really makes little difference.


Girls worry about their breasts and vaginas the way boys worry about their penis. As for your vagina; in all my years and I'm in my mid sixths I have never heard anyone refer to a vagina as ugly. Big lips have their advantage duty foreplay and oral sex. The same is true for an extended clitoris.

As long as you are not in any discomfort before, during or after sex or any other part of the day, stoop worrying. What ever you have is part of you. You are a beautiful person and any guy that makes fun of your anatomy is a fool for not appreciating the gift you are offering. Having sex with you is your gift to him. It is not something he is entitled to just because he took you on a date and spent some money on you.


Fact is most boys/men will appreciate the gift you have to offer if you do offer it to them. They will enjoy whatever it is you have to offer without complaint or teasing. The type of teasing that is not playful. So relax and enjoy your body. You have been blessed with a very special sex organ.

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