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Should I end my life.
Well basically life is pointless for me all i do is live in a world full of People who can't see outside the box. And push me around because i do. I have no friends really and I don't really care to live anymore. I plan on an OD on pain killers. But I just am scared I will live and have to explain to my parents (who have caught me cutting twice) any suggestions?
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There is a purpose in your life. I have had the same feelings, and you know I had 3 cops, firemen, and medics at my house because I would cut myself. My friends were scared and there are always people that care. I don't have very many friends and you know I rather keep to myself then have friends because most of the time its just trouble. I started to look at what i was doing and realized i have a future and I rather pursue that then have friends, drama, or anything. I stopped cutting, stopped punching things, and stopped thinking about suicide because I rather worry about what I am going to do in a few years as a career. Find something to care about and pursue a certain dream. Find friends that care not ones that don't. Try putting all this in the past because its not worth it. Find God, look to him because you are his child. Talk to a counselor. I did that and i felt a lot better because I could tell her anything and she wouldn't judge me, she'd rather help me. Life is NOT pointess, you have to find the thing in life that makes it worth it. You have a purpose but you aren't looking for it. Everyone has their problems but it should never be so bad that you want to end your life. Life is precious. Just keep holding on and follow your dreams rather than hurting yourself. Stop doing that its not healthy for you because one of these times you are going to end up cutting too deep. Find someone that inspires you. I have found that person and she is an amazing friend. She is the police officer that came to my house. She knew me, and she said things that made me feel better about myself and that I was being super stupid for what I was doing. I already had it in mind to be a police officer but once I met her she made up my mind completely. She is an inspiration and she made me who I am. Don't give up. You have only lived such a short life. Keep going because you never know what may happen in the years to come. It's too soon to meet god. Don't harm yourself. I did and now I realize that it was the worst possible thing that i could have ever done. Start over and become a new person. Think twice before you go any further.. Please don't kill yourself. ): I'll be praying for you..God bless you.
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Please dont hurt yourself. I know what you are going through. Trust me I have been there. I felt like the whole world was against me and I would be better off dead. But that was until I met the man of my dreams. He showed me what love was really like. I planned to commit suicide the day we met. If I didnt meet him first I probably wouldnt be here. And I am so thankful I didnt do it. And please stop cutting. I am terrified of the day one of my children come up and say "Mommy how did you get the scars?" Dont hurt yourself. It will get better. I know it seems like it wont, trust me I thought that too at one point, but it is. Some day your life will be so wonderful and you will be so happy and you will look back and think oh my God what was I thinking thank God I didnt kill myself I would have never known how wonderful my life was going to be. I think that every day. I am so happy with my life now and you will be feeling this way too dont give up. If you need any one to talk to who can relate email me stephiesadvice@aol.com any time Goog luck and Best wishes
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Listen, i have been through this before i have even failed trying to kill myself, i was constantly bullied and abused by my "friends" and i abused myseld also, i realized that ending it is not a good idea, talk to your friends about it my opinion dont really go to an adult because they will send you to a therapist which will bore you to freakin death
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People who commit suicide are selfish. You get to just run away from your problems and leave it all behind while your family and friends and community are here. If your looking for attention from your family do something positive instead of thinking about how shitty your life is.
The only reason you are posting on this site is because you are reaching out for help. Call a suicide hotline or a therapist. If that doesn't work then TELL your parents you want to kill yourself. Don't run from your problems like a little baby. Face them like a mature individual would.
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My advice? don't do anything. You may feel like the people around you are restricted in their thinking but face it, there's billions of people in the world, I would go so far as to say twenty of them at least match your desires. It sounds to me like you are young and the young are typically naive, they don't see past their own neighbourhood, there's a whole world to explore, and people who think outside the box usually end up in the best positions later on, you just have to be strong for now until you can get out and explore.
Also, how selfish to steal your existence from your parents, who love you and spent their lives supporting and caring for you, do you honestly think they would just shrug and move on if you died? they would be mortified and question themselves as parents, and your grandparents? friends? you do exist and people do know you and would miss you, the best advice I can give you is talk to your family (anyone who you are close to) and tell them how you feel and see if they can get you professional help :)
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No matter how tough life gets or how tough it can be commiting suicide is not the answer. i mean im sure that your are really smart and some day you will find someone who loves you just the way you are. i went through a phaze like this once but i got through it, i just needed to find the real meaning of life and my purpose in life. trust me you just need to stay strong, keep your head up, stay smiling and have no regrets and you can pretty much get through anything. Life is very valuable you only get to live it once so just remember stay strong and i promise you things will get better.
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