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Avoiding an apology
Okay..look the thing is i went out with a guy in my school and we dated for around a year...throughout the year there were many issues and finally we have moved quite apart from each other..we would hopefully be going to different universities...I am a very sensitive person and i got really close to him..If you ask me i am still not over him..though i hate him for all that he did to me..the way he took me for granted but i cant change any of that..I just need to accept it..now the thing is a week ago..my mother read some of my previous messages in my phone and she has found out about it...I belong to Pakistan and my parents are very strict on all this..She made me sit and asked me about him..I denied it and left the room..I cant tell her the truth because it will be really heart breaking for both of us..I don even know which messages ahs she read...how much ahs she found out....I cant face all that..telling her what happened between us..Since then she has not asked me again..but i keep crying because i fear in the coming days she will order me to tell her what was going on ...and i cant..I feel terrible...I dono what to do..It feels as if i am trapped at my place...everything i do shows my mothers distrust in it...please help me..I am nineteen years old..I need your advice asap
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I know how you feel. I had a best friend go through this. Although she is Indian and not from Pakistan...............let me tell you how to deal with it.
You are 19!!!! not 14. You are a legal adult therefore can do what you please..I suggest telling your mother the truth. I know it's the last thing you would think about doing but it's right. A huge weight will be lifted off your shoulders. I know it doesn't make sense now but later on you will have someone else in your life and have to stand up to your mom. It's better to do it now when the trouble weight only an ounce then later when it weights a ton.
I know you are hurt and I am sensitive too but you know what????.............you got something great out of this relationship. Memories and a lesson :)......Now you should start anew. You might not like it but it feels great after a week of standing up to your mom and your past. With that.I wish you a good luck.
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