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He Cheated How Do I Get Back at Him or What Do I Say?
I'm 15 and my bf who I've been dating for a while..I just found out that hes cheating on me with some pretty blonde girl who knows I am dating him. How should I tell him or get back at him? and what should I say when I break up with him?
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There is an old saying
"Silence is ones worst revenge"
This is true, If you say nothing and keep your head held high you leave him wondering and guessing. If you give him no information, Then he knows nothing.
It is immature and childish to seek revenge on someone by looking to get them back. If you want to piss him off then be the bigger person and ignore it. I am 99% sure that this guy will cheat on the blonde girl too because once a cheater normally always a cheater. Be strong and meet someone else who will treat you right but don't go out to seek revenge on someone who isn't worth your time.
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Dont try to get im back thats just putting yourself on his level and you are better than him just call him up or go see his and say you know what I dont want you we are over I am better than this and I am not about to be cheated on by you and then hang up and never talk to him it will drive him crazy
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You don't need to get back at him or even say anything. I know you are feeling pretty angry right now and you want to say something that will cut him, but don't. Hold your head high; be the bigger person. Tell him you are breaking up with him because he cheated on you, and that you don't want to communicate with him again. That's it. It will annoy him no end that you have the moral highground. Don't engage with him in a conversation about it - this is not a negotiation. And definitely don't waste any more of your mental and emotional energy on him.
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