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I only enjoy sex without a condom
My bf and I have been active for about 2 years. He always wears a condom and I am also on BC. I never have enjoyed intercourse very much, I always finish just by him touching me after intercourse, which I am fine with, but still I would like to both be enjoying it at the same time. It is not that sex is painful for me, just not comfortable enough to be that enjoyable. Anyways, recently we got a little bit... ahead of ourselves and did it without a condom, and it was like... amazing... ha ha. It was the first time that I had actually gotten pleasure out of it. I really don't want to take the chances of doing it without protection but that's the only way I feel pleasure out of it... and I have tried more lubrication with the condom, and that works a little better but still after about 30 seconds of thrusting I just want it to be over with. The feeling is as is if it is not enough friction, like it slides too far in and is too big for me... haha. My bf is great, well he is willing to try anything to make me feel good too but I think he still feels kind of bad that he can't make it good for me. And also we are not ready to be taking our risks with pregnancy. Does anyone else have a problem similar and what should we do? Sorry my english is not so good.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Condoms?
if you can get your tubes tied you wont have 2 worry bout pregnacy and your period days known as mother nature will shorten
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Condoms do offer an extra layer of protection. You may not like the feel of latex condoms and that is understandable. Have you tried the natural variety of condoms sometimes called sheepskin. They don'offer the same protection that latex offers but hey may give you the feel you are looking for.
Below are two links that better explain the different types of condoms on the market.
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Having sex while on birth control is not 'doing it with protection'- birth control is just as effective as condoms as preventing pregnancy. (Sometimes more.) No reason that you can't keep doing it, as long as you are taking your birth control properly.
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