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Leaving A Toy In There
19/M
I was wondering if it would be okay for me to leave my toy in my back-door (if you know what I mean) for a while, and if it would have any negative side effects. It is maybe an inch around at the very thickest part. I just like having it in. So how long is it okay to leave it in for, or does it really matter? Thanks for the help!
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Not a great idea.
It's not healthy to obstruct your anus for more than minutes at a time. Honestly, you have a basic physical need to fart too many times a day, often even hourly, and you'll get uncomfortable and even damage your body if your body can't do that easily. There is also the simple cleanliness problem. The same way most doctors recommend a tampon stays in for only 4-6 hours (oops, you are a guy you might not have known that but...) any foreign object you insert into your body has a pretty short life span. I would geuss that insertion in the anus has an even shorter time period than the vagina. Finally, good luck finding a sex toy that is designed for that kind of constant use! A break, a tear, a crack in a sex toy left your anus over the long-term could be very dangerous for your health.
Some basic rules:
Don't wear this out of the house. It's neither sane nor safe. Besides, you don't want to have your mother trying to make up an excuse for it to the doctors they day you get hit by a car and are lying unconscious in the hospital.
Buy something MEANT for anal penetration - that means something with a nice board base so it won't 'slip in'. Again, you don't want to explain to the doctors in the ER that you lost a one-inch thick dildo inside yourself and one inch thick, that could totally get 'lost'.
Be alone. Again, it's both rude and unkind to expose people who are not your consenting sexual partners (ie, your family, friends, roommates, classmates, co-workers or strangers) to participate, EVEN in a small way they never know about, in your sexual activities. Do this only when you are certain of of privacy, or if you aren't alone, make sure they are consenting to being part of your sex life.
And be careful.
I'm not a doctor, or a sex specialist of any kind, and that is who you really should put this question too. You also need to make sure that you have purchased an appropriate toy and done your research on how to properly clean it. You'll get the best service by going to a non-seedy sex store and talking a sales rep. Google other communities and ask questions about your interest in this, but be sceptical and double and triple check any advice you'd get. Talk to a doctor - I suspect you won't do that - but you really should.
Generally speaking, I would GUESS that if you are doing this for less than half hour a day, you're probably fine - but I might be wrong! Perhaps more time is acceptable if you are prepared and sensible about it - Perhaps even that long is not a good idea. I don't really know. I'm sure SOMEONE out there does. It's sex, and it's the internet. You can find out. I do know that you ought to find out from some people with real education and expertise before you shove anything up your butt on a regular basis.
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I would not suggest leaving a toy up your ass. Nothing about that is safe, and I'm pretty sure there are negative side effects. I don't know what they are, but Google does.
That should clear things up.
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