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Thought he was my friend now he is hitting on me?
Well I have this friend and I thought he was pretty decent but now on Facebook he is sexually harassing me and asking me all these inappropriate questions. I don't wanna be mean or anything but its making me very uncomfortable. How do I let him down easy?
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just say whatever is on your mind. thats the only way to make sure you get it through his head, just be real. if you feel bad afterwards, tell him you guys can still be friends and talk if he can promise to keep it on a friendship level.
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Don't worry yourself about letting him down easy. He's not worried about how his actions are affecting you. He is disrepectful and does not deserve to be your friend. You are worth so much more than to be disrespected and harassed. What he is doing is against the law. You can file a complaint with the internet crime complaint center if you think it has gotten this far. If not simply tell him you don't appreciate the comments, questions, and over all sexual harassment. If he doesn't realize that he has stepped far across the line of friendship then I would block him and report him. However, if you truly value his friendship and perhaps he thought there was more than really is then after letting him know that his actions are bothering you I'm sure as your friend he will immediately stop.
Don't let guys or anyone else make you feel less of the beautiful and respectable person that you are. Stand up for yourself and love yourself first and foremost.
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Just talk to him... tell him you do not want to make him feel bad in anyway but he is making you uncomfortable, and that you would like for him to stop with all the inappropriate questions and comments... if he doesnt stop then block him good luck and best wishes
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