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liesbainism
how can one be free from the spirit of liesbainism
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Before I answer your question I need to know more of what you mean by; "the spirit of lesbianism."
Your age and she would also be helpful.
Having you meaning for asking this question would be helpful in answering you. Examples: I am having lesbian feelings for some one, I think I'm gay, I have a gay friend. Information like this would be helpful in answering your question.
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(By the way you have worded your question, I'm assuming you believe in God. And I'm going to assume that you believe that there is no, "Gay gene".)
This is no easy goal, but it is an achievable one. There is no magical solution to this, it will take some self evaluation, and strength. But you can do this. A lot of the time, the causes that will subconsciously drive a woman to being with another woman are either from neglect from a mother figure, or a loss of self worth. You have to know, there is love for you, and you are worthy of it. If you feel at all worthless, you have to know you have love from your friends, and your Savior that you are indeed worthy of. :)) No one made you this way, but you also did not choose to be this way either. Millions of other people have this problem too, you are not alone. But part of the challenge is realizing the problem, and accepting that you have it. And look, you can already check that one off the list! :D
Whatever was the cause of your turning to lesbianism, you have to know God still loves you. He forgives you, and he will support you in the hard times coming your way. Support from your church or a group is essential. You are not alone in this, and there are people with experience who can help guide you. Healthy, friend relationships with other women can help the attraction diminish as well.
Also, you are a beautiful girl, and you need to realize that. There are good men out there who would love to be with you, and treat you with the love and respect you deserve. So remember, you're not alone, and God will be there to see you through this. Just remember you need to respect yourself, and believe you can do this. I'll be praying for you. I wish you the best of luck. :)))
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