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Guy friend want more than just friends
My guy friend of 4 years just now tells me( female ) he wants more than friendship now or he can't be friends . We have never had sex and I do not want to take it to that level with him. This really hurts my feelings cuz I don't want to lose him As a friend what should I do ?
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He is trying to manipulate you. Don't give in! If he's the kind of guy who would stop talking to you because you Don't want to have sex with him then he was never a true friend. Also if he really loved you he would understand you dot love him and let you go.
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If he wants to have sex with you and is saying that the friendship is over if you don't have sex with him, then the friendship is already over, because he is a manipulative asshole who doesn't like you or respect you, and you should never speak to agian.
If he asking for a date, and you don't want to date him, respect his feelings and understand that sometimes you can't stay friends with someone you feel so much more than frienship for. Let the friendship end. Maybe when he doesn't feel the same way about you, you can be friends agian.
It's always tough to loose a friend, but sometimes it's the best choice. If this guy is a creep who is trying to bully you into sleeping with him by threatening to end your friendship - then that is someone you shouldn't be friends with anyways. If he is just a guy who knows he either needs to give a rommantic relationship with you a shoot, or back out of the friendship because he can't be satasfied with it, then he's an honest guy and you should respect his choice to end the friendship, just the way he needs to respect your choice not to date him.
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