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Is it time to let go?
I used to have this best friend, and we were really close. We used to do everything together. After one year of being friends, she started to get mad at me over little things that weren't even my fault. When she was mad at me, she would trash talk me to my face so much that it made me cry and it still hurts to think about it. I would always have to apologize to her. When she ditched me for other people, I was upset to think that all of our friendship went to waste, but somewhat glad because I had never completely forgiven her. Now she acts like we are strangers and never gives me a second look. When I'm with my other friends, I talk about the good memories I had with her. Then, when I'm about to call her up and try to talk it out, I think about the bad in our friendship. Besides the trash talking to my face, it hurt me the way she treated me like a stranger. Also, it seemed like she would use me. She would always take my math hw without asking and even forced me to give her the answers to a math test (because she knows that I usually get above average grades in math). After all that, I know I shouldn't talk to her anymore especially because she encouraged me to do some bad stuff, but I miss our fun memories together. Is it worth it to let her go?
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For one apoligizing for something that wasnt your fault is a mistake many people make to avoid conflict or even the chance of loosing your friendship and a true best friend would never turn their back on you or make you cry. Sometimes no matter how hard you just need to move on and find another best friend who will always be there even in ther worst of times and especially the best of times
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I think you should do what feels right to you and i know exactly what you're going through because i basically was going through the same thing not to long ago with someone that I thought was my "best friend" but i decided to let her go because i didn't think it was right for her to treat me the way she did that's just something friends don't do to each other constantly putting each other down and fighting over stupid things that's just not what so called "friends" should always do. Since I've let her go my life has been better and I haven't been mad and sad like I used to be just do what you think is best for you but if you don't think it's going to workout then let her go because you shouldn't waste your time on someone that doesn't appreciate you.
Good luck with your decision and by the way if you do get rid of her she will realize what she had when you're gone but it'll be too late. That's what happened with me and me now ex best friend.
Need more advice? Don't be afraid to ask me :)
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