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I've done bad things in the past, why is he still with me
I've been with this guy for a year. he's been nothing but good to me. He used to tell all his friends "She's the one." "She's the one i want helping me make a life." we're packing 'em up for college here in August.. I need help, before i can't get out.. I've lied to him. My friend was having a sleep over && we, kissed. i mean it was no make out or touching but (kiss).. I mean not horrible? && i haven't cheated.. But, i talked to my ex. He text(ed) me a time or two? i text(ed) back. I felt as if i had no other choice! he was trying to get to me threw my sisters.. once my boyfriend found out the my e was trying to get with me, he went & beat the snot out of him! when he found out i talked back to him.. he was pissed.. i mean.. he didn't even care if i wasn't flirting or not.. he didn't leave but, i know how bad he wanted to.. he says i'm a horrible person && that he has no more trust in me. i asked him the other day why he was still with me and he answered with, "cause." I'm not a bad person?.. everyone makes mistakes right?? why is he still with me??
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He is still with you because he loves you and cares for you and your job now is to prove to him that you have changed and that he can trust you again... it may take a while but his heart is hurting and you have to fix it... now he should call you names but you shouldnt do that stuff again let him know that you love him and you want to change for him and work on your relationship before it gets worse and he does leave good luck to you
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Although you were honest you still kissed your ex and after the fact you stood up for him. I can see how your boyfriend would be upset and very concerned as to why you a) kissed your ex in the first place b) why you would even want to text your ex and c)when you talked back to him as if you were almost standing up for your ex. An ex is an ex fort he reason. Your ex is the past and your boyfriend is the present. Last year, I was texting old flings and my boyfriend knew this. My boyfriend was curious as to why I would even want to keep in contact. Your boyfriend is probably really hurt right now and is wondering what to do. Boys don't cry when they get upset they get angry. My advice let him cool down I'm sure he still has feelings for you but you have to realize hes hurting right now. You're not a bad person but you did however make a mistake. We all make mistakes thats what makes us human. He is still with you because he cares about you. Relationships are hard and this is a bump in the road. Now its up to your boyfriend if he can overlook this little bump in the road or maybe its something that he might not be able to deal with. Give him sometime to cool off.
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he hasnt left because he does wanna build a life with you everyone makes mistakes and yours arn't that bad when you truely love someone you accept all of them. He may not trust you now but that doesnt mean he doesnt love you love for someone doesnt fully ever go away it just gets pushed aside
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It's forgive and forget, he loves you and he is willing to look past your mistakes because he wants to be with you, simple as that.
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