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guys !
how do i get a guy to noticee me ?
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start to talk to him and don't be shy. talk to him regularly and maybr one day dont talk to him and see if he starts to talk to you, and if hes right next to you or somrthign in class look at the clock or something and if he looks there to, you know he was staring at you!
maybe ask each other for your numbers and start to text then maybe start to hang out haha,
hope i helped and good luck!(:
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find out what kind of guy your actually into first. study him. Figure out his likes and dislikes. make sure he's the type of guy you'd see yourself with. If so, make a move. Make sure your Not the Slut everyone sees or the nerd studying pluto. If you cared for yourself you'd make sure you were up to date with just about everything. Remember, don't change for anyone but yourself.. If you want to. <3
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Be different. If you're not different, you don't stand out. Think for yourself, if you fit in you won't be noticed.
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Be yourself...
There are small things you can do, but none of them will work if you just rely on the tips. You can be flirty like giggle, touch the guy a lot, smile, laugh, stare/gaze at him, bite your lip, play footsie, etc. But again, you can't just rely on these things alone.. personality comes along with it.
If you want a guy to like you, and REALLY like you, you just need to be who you are. Don't try to be something you're not.. because then the wrong guys will fall for the wrong "you".. and you don't want that. If you act yourself, then the right guy will come along because he will fall in love with YOU and not something you're pretending to me.
Oh and don't over do it.. lots and LOTS of girls over-do the flirting and it just becomes obnoxious and well...trashy. I see girls all the time with pushed-up boobs, fake tans, mini skirts, and flirt endlessly.. Its really unattractive.
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Stop trying.
Seriously.
Just be your normal self, get involved with clubs at school/sports/after school things, whatever. Talk to coworkers (if you're working) and go out with your friends. Don't try to get a guy's attention just for dating. You'll discover (if you haven't already) that some of your best friends can be of the opposite sex, because they give a different point of view on life.
If you're dressing provocatively and/or acting like an airhead and thinking it's cute, you're probably going to attract the wrong kind of guy. You want someone to like you for who you really are, right? :)
-LM
[19/f]
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