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Bleeding during intercourse
I am a 36 year old woman with a boyfriend about 10 years younger, he is very "long" and I bleed almost everytime we have sex...sometimes alot, sometimes a little. It does hurt sometimes in different positions but it's kind of a pleasure pain. Should I be concerned about this? Is it possible that he is just too big? We have been together for several months and I figured by now I would be "stretched out" to the point the bleeding would stop. I have seen my Gyno about this and she says nothing to worry about but she is also in and out in 5 minutes.
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Ask a second opinion. Two heads are better than one so it wont hurt like it does now.
I suggest you take it easy so you can find your comfort zone. I know the guy does not like hurting you so he wont mind. Doing this will make less pain for the time being but still the same pleasure.
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Why bleed when you can get a bandage????
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IF your gynecologist say there is nothing to worry about then you have two options.
1. Take her word for it and ask you BF not to go so deep.
2. Seek a second opinion of another gynecologist.
As someone who had to run through a number of doctors to find out the reason for a chronic pain problem after a car accident, I suggest option 2.
After receiving several different opinions of what my problem was I decided that this was ridiculous and time to see the experts and not the local people. I'm fortunate that our local hospitals are world class teaching hospitals, every bit the equal of the mayo clinic.
I looked on the web and found that all of the hospitals had a patient referral line. I called the referral line and asked to see a doctor based on the last diagnoses I had. After questioning by the referral specialist I was referred to an entirely different specialist and specialty. The cause of my problem was finally properly diagnosed.
I tell you this to show you that not that your doctor is wrong but that your doctor is use to practicing what I call looking for pickles in the pickle barrel medicine. Where as at teaching hospitals the doctors there have to be on their toes to stay ahead of their students who are always looking for the hearing in the pickle barrel. It is just a different way of practicing.
If you have a teaching hospital or level one trauma center near you, call their patient referral line. Ask to be referred to the gynecology department for a second opinion.
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