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This Realationship went downhill quick...What happened?
Ok I have written you guyss many questions about this same person .Our whole story starts in Mar. of this year he had a gf but we still were flirtin and stuff.Then after they broke up we started to become a whole lot closer but we kept the whole thing on the low cuz he didnt want to deal with people sayin stuff to him.Then we started to get into "I love You's" He told me that he had loved me more than almost more than anything we had even made names for eachother like babe bae boo and stuff like tht.We were smooth sailing for a couple of months and then he kinda jus stopped talkin to me for like 2-3 weeks...Finally he told me he had been ignoring me because he had a gf and he wanted to be friends for now.That night i cried myself to sleep.Can anybody tell me what happened and is he still worth me?
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Sounds to me that the relationship you shared was more of a 'rebound' one. He just got out of a relationship with his ex, the girlfriend at the time of your initial flirtatious behaviors. Since they're broken up, you stepped in as a bit of a 'I don't want to be lonely' stage for him.
Even though you two were together for a couple months, it seems like he was still looking around, until he found someone else. It wasn't fair or right on his part for drifting away and not speaking to you directly on what he was up to, during that 2-3week period of absence.
Then, you start to wonder, if he was already 'flirting' on the low with the new girlfriend, while still in a relationship with you?
People behaviors, sometimes tend to be on a pattern system. If he was flirting with you, while in a relationship, chances are he was flirting with someone else while in a relationship with you.
It wont be long, before he deals with someone else. It seems like a pattern in this case. Kind of like the old saying "If he/she cheated on him/her, what makes you think he wont cheat on you?"
The best thing I advise you to do, leave him alone completely. By remaining as 'just a friend' its going to eat away at you. He's not even worth being a friend, he'll just be taking up space in your life, taking the place of worthy people who belong around you.
Move on, get yourself back on track. Make more "YOU" time. Eventually, you'll build yourself stronger than ever, and ready for what's in store in the near future.
I wish you all the best.
-Cinnamon B-
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