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He doesn't want to be friends anymore?
My best friend told me he doesn't want to be friends anymore. We have been involved like we made out and gone to second base. But then he went to San Antonio. I had a really big crush on him for the longest time. Then he tells me about this girl Jessica whom he likes and use to work with. And i tell him about this guy ii met named Shawn and i try to be a good sport, and tell him i am happy for him, but i was mad. Then he says to call him, and i did, but he doesn't answer, then he calls me back. He tells me i am special to him and i am like his twin, because we're so alike in many ways. Well the next day we had a phone conversation about how I went to someone's house and got high with them, and i was scared, and he seemed to be understanding. Well i get a missed call from him and then i call him back and he said i called because i don't think we should be friends anymore, and i was just like um okay? then he said bye and hung up and i texted him asking him why and he said because your a liar. Then i called again and asked him what did i lie about. He said i was standing in front of his house. and i was like what are you talking about? i was in my bed and really upset. I called him today and texted him asking him why he was mad at me. and i left him a voice mail saying i wanted to talk like mature adults but he hasn't called or texted me. i don't know what to do. and i can't figure out why he's mad at me? i thought maybe this was a joke or something but he hasn't said anything. what should i do?
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All you are doing by continuing to communicate with him is perpetuating drama, which makes it harder to move on.
Look, change happens. Friends come and go, as do lovers, sometimes for stuff that may seem a little surreal. Just try to learn from it so that your next relationship is more successful.
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I take it you werent at his house.
I couldn't tell you how, but somehow he seems to have got the idea that when you said you were somewhere else, you were at his house.
He clearly will hang up on you/not listen to you if you call. But very very few people will ignore an email if sent. They will read it, whether they reply or not. So my suggestion to you would be to email him, and tell him you don't know what he's talking about, tell him everywhere you were, maybe even give a suggestion of someone who could confirm you were, and ask him where he got the idea that you would ever lie to him. Say that even if he dosent want to be your friend anymore, you really want to understand it so could he at least email you with the details that made him feel this way.
I'm sorry sweetie, this sucks. Do your best to get him to listen, and if he really won't then cut your losses, you've done nothing wrong.
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