|
super tight and idk what to do?
I'm 16 and female. I am super tight. I havent ever truely been fingered. I have had plenty of guys play with me but never really finger me. I want to have sex but I am nervous becaus I can't even get a tampon in and i do it properly. I relax and push the applicater all the way in and then it just pushes itself back out. I have have guys try and finger me but they have only gotten in 2 centimeters before it got extreamly painful and anymore than that I start crying. Any tips on what ius wrong with my bodyy if its my body and what can I do to loosen up???
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Have you tried using an articifal lubricant such as Ky Jelly to insert the tampon in nice and easy? Here's a link. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
It also says what I wanted to point out that unless you are calm, don't anticipate pain and clench muscles up you won't be able to get a tampon or anything else in. Also re: intercourse it's one size fits all and again artifical lubrication can help.
As for fingering if you don't produce enough of your own lubrication from self-stimulation artificial lubricant again will help with insertion.
]
I know how you feel, I was really tight too and it's one of the most painful things ever. All I can say is to be with a guy you know is going to be loving and patient who'll take things slowly, like using one finger first and when that doesn't hurt use 2 and it should eventually get better though it'll take a bit of time so that's where having someone whose patient and will understand and go slow is important.
Other than that, just try yourself, and do the same thing I said use one finger and see if it still hurts afterall, your the one whose going to be more likely to stop if it hurts :) good luck and remember to be careful and use protection!
x
]
More Questions: |