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husband lookingat nude women on laptop
how do I stop hurting cause my husband is looking at naked younger women on his laptop.
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My husband watches porn and has his own collection of naked pictures he saves on the computer. I know that those women are younger, in better shape and way hotter looking than I am but I know he loves me and isn't going anywhere. I think you need to have better communication with him and let him know that you need more reassurance that you're still good enough and he's not going to seek out another woman. I'm sure everything is fine and he's just a normal horny man. I hope this helps and good luck.
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All I can say to you is what my wife said to me when we first married. "I can look at the menu but I better not reorder or sample the menu"
I'm not saying you should not feel hurt by this. Your feelings are your feelings. What I am saying is that as long as your husband is only looking at pictures he has not done anything wrong. Back in the day, as the saying goes, men had to rely on magazines such as Hustler and playboy to look at nude women. Playboy magazine was found in most homes as much as was sports illustrated. Today the computer brings pornography into the home on a far easier and less intrusive bases than ever before.
You are probably saying to yourself something to the effect; why does he have to look at nude women on the web when he has me at home that he can see and touch me naked? This is very true. People also have art at home yet they still go to museums to see more art. Not exactly the best example but I think you can get my meaning.
The fact that you have written us tells me you have not asked your husband why he is looking at nude women on his computer. There may be a very simple and acceptable answer if you ask him.
My advise; If you have not already done so ask your husband why? If he asks why you are asking? Tell him you find it hurtful that he is and would like to understand why he fells the need to do so?
Communication is key to everything we do, especially in a marriage. I cannot tell you why your husband does something, I can only say why I do somethings. If I do something my wife doesn't care for she says something. We discuss it and come to a solution. It works both ways and is far better than either one of us sitting there stewing about it and having hurt feelings towards the other. So talk to your husband and find out why while letting him know how you feel.
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