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Dating this new guy.
I'm dating this guy. I don't know him very well but because of past experiences, I have decided not to date a friend, someone I'm particularly close to. I need a new experience! He just graduated from my school, and I am a junior now since school just ended. He is very sweet and talkative and I really enjoy talking to him. We haven't met in person but he and I are planning to go to Perdido on Saturday. He has a car and such. We've only been dating for a day or so but I feel so weird. I feel like I'm not getting anywhere in the relationship. I feel like I'm not getting to know him. Is it normal to feel this way when actually dating someone you really don't know about? I'm sure I'll get to know him as the relationship goes on, but still. Any advice?
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The first 6 months of a relationship is basically a trial period, You are just getting to know your partner.
You have only been dating a day, That is nowhere long enough. You can't expect to fully know your partner in a week/month or even 3 months. Yes, It is normal. Relationships take work, If you want to get to know your boyfriend then the both of you are going to have to work at it. There must of been something that led the both of you to where you are now. I suggest taking the relationship slow until you know him and you know you can trust him which very well again could be 6 months. You can't rush it, It doesn't work that way. Have some patience
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Right now, you are in a -if you want to put it this way- distance relationship. You haven't even met the guy in person, and that can be extremely dangerous. You've heard the stories of people dating online, or over the phone, and when they meet face-to-face, the person could be some really old freak, and they end up messing the other person up big time. You need to be really careful with him, unless you know that he is not some old guy who's trying to mess you up.
As far as normal goes, it is normal to feel weird when dating someone you don't know. Just be carfull when you two meet personally.
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