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lost & conused
I'm 22 and a female. There’s this guy I've been seeing for two mounts. He's the type of guy I could really fall for.
I see him every day, and if for some reason I don't we text or he'll call me.
Well one night he went out with some friends to have a drink.
I went over later that night, his guard was down and he told me that he wants to be a better man when I’m around, and that he could see himself growing old with me and things of that sort.
Since that night I have not heard from him. What do you think happened?
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Dear "lost & confused",
I can 100% understand why your wondering what happened to your admirer. There are a lot of reasons why you haven't heard from him since that faithful night but there is one possibility that is standing out to me the most.
You have this guy all vulnerable in your midsts and he totally pours his heart out to you, let's face it, most guys don't do that so valiantly. I have strong reason to believe that he feels embarrassed from what he said. Not saying that it wasn't true, but a conversation like that is pretty heart-felt and deep. I can imagine he's wondering if he sounded "cheesy" or "Lame".
I think you should contact him first, don't wait around for him to contact you. He made the first step of admitting his true feelings for you. Telling him how you feel (assuming their good thoughts) will definitely give him that extra confidence he needs to come crawling out of the hole he's hiding in.
Ah! Young Romance,
Braylen
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