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drunken phone call


Question Posted Sunday June 5 2011, 2:00 am

alright so my ex and two of my other friends decided to wag school.
(two boys one girl all 16 year of age)
they went to buy drinks...

so then they got drunk at the local park.
i was at school wen i got a call from my ex (we recently broke up) calling me a slut and how he questions why we ever went out and that he didnt love me...

later that day, i got a phone call from the girl asking for help. as one of the boys passed out and she didnt know what to do. i went straight to the principle so they could get a ambulance there at once.

so all is fine now but tommorow i have to go to school and face them all.
im scared because i ratted them into the principle about wagging and drinking so they would atleast be safe then dead. but now i also have to face my ex. what should i do????


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VoiceofReason answered Monday June 6 2011, 2:07 am:
So why didn't you call the ambulance yourself? Why did the principal have to get involved? In my old neighborhood somebody who finked on their friends like that would get a major beatdown.

Look, I commend you for doing what you could for your friends. You meant well. But you need to learn from this, too, especially as you likely screwed the friendships with your actions. The schoolyard has its own perverse morality and it is what it is.

But just to clarify so you don't misunderstand me, you weren't a bad actor here. However, you just went about calling the ambulance wrong and there will be consequences for it.

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Razhie answered Sunday June 5 2011, 4:10 pm:
Hold your head high and ignore them if they say anything other than "Thank you."

Your ex behaved cruelly, and stupidly. If he has any sense he'll be hanging his head and be properly ashamed of himself. If he doesn't have any sense - well, he is your ex so that isn't your problem anymore.

You have nothing to be ashamed of, no reason you can't face them with your head held high. Don't act like you did anything wrong, or people might think you did as well.

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