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Trying to figure out who is the father- I need advice


Question Posted Thursday June 2 2011, 2:36 am

I had sex with this girl who i was seening. We had sex for the first time on jan 29th 2011.
We also had sex on feb 5th and 6th.
She was seeing another guy for long time before i knew her.

She called and said she is 16 weeks pregant as of June 1st.
She said there are many days in between her periods longer than normal way over 30 days.

I know by taking the dna test i will know but my attorney said to wait till the baby is born for legal reasons but i want to move on and find out now.
If someone can help it would be appreciated
She is trying to figure out who is the father she thinks it could be me or the other guy.

I counted the weeks back and figured week 1 was Feb 14th 2011.

How many weeks do you back before Feb 14th to find out who could be the daddy?

Any feedback would be appreciated.


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Additional info, added Thursday June 2 2011, 7:15 pm:
I will take dna test later on.

I had sex with her on Jan 29th and feb 5th and 6th.
The baby is 16 weeks old that puts it at feb 14.

She was with another man for the whole month of jan. If I had sex with her on the 29th of Jan can she become pregant in 2 weeks?

How many week before the 14th of Feb does it take make baby.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday June 2 2011, 6:54 pm:
i would wait you could really harm the baby by doing a dna test now. they can do a dna test in the hospital support this woman who is possible carrying your child. she had sex with you last how big of a gap was it from him to you. from you posted on here iits more likely you just be supportive being pregnant and not knowing is hard it doesnt make her a whore or any other type of word.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday June 2 2011, 9:44 am:
Week one is week one, you don't go back any further than that. The math that you are using is not an exact science but is close enough.


Listen to you lawyer and wait until the baby is born to find out if your the father. There are good legal reasons for this; so follow your lawyers advice. This is what you are paying for.

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Xui answered Thursday June 2 2011, 5:37 am:
Wait until the baby is born, Once the baby is born you can request a DNA test.

When the baby is born, It can be done

If the mother wants to find out whether the baby is yours or not and is willing to take the DNA test then you can going from there.

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