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Is it normal to ONLY achieve an orgasm through G-spot stimulaion?
When masturbating, I find the most success with targeting my G-spot. When I try to orgasm through clitoral stimulation, there isn't the same effect. I don't get the same rush. It doesn't even feel all that good. But when I read about masturbation, G-spot orgasms seem REALLY rare. What is going on? G-spot orgasms aren't hard for me to achieve on my own and I am sure it is an orgasm.
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They're not as rare as you would think. Thing is, in many places (especially the US) there's a large degree of sexual shaming put on women and there's a lack of good sex specific education about the physical body out there. There are plenty of women alive who are entirely capable of GSpot orgasms who have never really explored themselves or had a partner explore them and found out. Too many people think sex is kissing->missionary->cuddle->sleep or something similar because they've had some moral authority telling them that sex is dirty and sinful and that lust is inappropriate all their lives.
Don't take sexual statistics too seriously, especially when you're talking women and orgasms. In the 50s scientists were still debating about the existence of the female orgasm.
Scientists. Not religion, not politics, not the every day water cooler conversations at work, scientists.
Every woman I've slept with in my life has had a GSpot and it's been somewhat sensitive. Not all women are capable of having an orgasm from just G-Spot stimulation, but based on my anecdotal evidence it's as common for a woman to climax from only G-Spot stimulation as it is for a woman to climax with only clitoral stimulation, and it's not uncommon that either alone works just fine and they work even better together.
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In short, no, it's not normal. The majority of women have a difficult time orgasming through G-spot stimulation. A lot of women just don't masturbate and, in turn, don't know their bodies as well as those that do. Many women can't achieve orgasm at all. I don't think G-spot orgasms are as rare as they're made out to be, but they can't be considered "normal" from a numbers standpoint.
All that said, why does it matter? Who cares? I'd wager that many of these normal women would rather have what you have. Their partners probably would too! You're lucky!
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Every woman is a little different. Typically I can have a small orgasm without clitoral stimulation. But I have my strongest orgasms from anal sex and having a vibrator on my clit. There is a possibilty that you're not as sensitive down there or you haven't found the proper stimulation. If you're able to achive orgasm the way you do things now, I wouldn't worry about it. If you have any other questions,lease feel free to asking me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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