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My Best Friend is so down and going through hell. How can I cheer her up?
I am going to be maid of honour for my best friends wedding and we have been planning it for the last two months. I love her dearly but she is now going through hell. Her Fiance is ex army and we have recently found out he went awol and they have caught up with him. She wont be seeing him for over a year and is left on her own with 2 children. I want to do something amazing for her to take her mind off the wedding and to make her understand how much I love her and am here for her. The kids are going away for a week and I want to do something amazing for her. We are both 25 years old. What can I do? Please help!
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Take her out for some quality girl friend time. Like a vacation. It depends on how much money you want to spend- but you could book airplane tickets and go somewhere warm and be at the beach all day and relax. Or if you're on a budget, maybe go on a road trip and do some sightseeing?
Some other ideas are going to a concert, amusement park, skiing at a mountain, shopping spree, spa day (getting massages, facials, mani-pedi etc)
But just remember- Its the thought that counts. No amount of money, or what you do, will help her as much as you being there for her. Just be with her and spend time with her, she just needs a close body to be with. Make sure she know's you're always going to help her and be by her side.
Oh and my mom said you guys could bake together, garden, scrapbook/look at old pictures, go on a nature walk and take pictures of each other/photoshoot. She said those are her favorite things to do when she needs to take her mind off things.
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