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i can't cum.
I am a female. Lately when I masturbate, I can cum, but not as much as usual, and then I get all dry and it hurts when I try to finger myself. Usually when I masturbate, I cum right away but I don't know what is wrong.
thanks!
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It could be related to your period but if it's not, it could be a mental problem. If you're having problems at school or home or if you've recently had a messy break up, these things could be interferring with your ability to have a good orgasm. Try a few relaxing techniques before you masturbate. Light some candles, take a bubble bath and play some relaxing music before you begin. Letting your mind relax, will help your body relax and hopefully give you better orgasms. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Is this lately as in the last few days? It may be related to your cycle. Personally, at different times in my cycle, these things change, especially right around my period.
As the other Advicenator suggested, there's always lube to help out.
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Don't worry about it. The intensity of orgasms varies. As for fingering yourself, you can always use lube like Astroglide to deal with the dryness.
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