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this is extra fron tha other one u answered about wether i
Should dump him or not. But mi real problem is that his mom and sister r so happy for him and were going to our 8th grade dance together next Friday and his mom and sis r buying him a tux and everything. And if I hurt him I hurt his family. Should I still dump him.???
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hmm this one is a little difficult. The way I see it, you have 2 options.
A) you can break up with him before the dance. yes that will make him upset because he was probably looking forward to this. It will also make his family upset because they spent time and money buying him a tux and also looking forward to it. And it could also upset you because then you won't get to go to the dance.
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B) You can break up with him after the dance. It will give you a chance to take a break from all this thinking. You can go and just have a good time. Forget about breaking up, forget about love, forget about all your worries.. and just go out and have fun :) And then a few days after the dance, think it over again and make a decision.. who knows? maybe you'll change your mind after the dance.
Its entirely your choice which option you go with.. But my personal opinion is that you go with choice B. But if you do go with that one, you have to be careful because you don't want it to seem like you were just using him just so you could go to the dance. So if you do go with this option, make sure you wait a few days and then break up with him if you still wish to.
Remember, its entirely your choice. don't let anyone make your decision. Inbox me if you have any more questions! good luck :)
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