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ok so my girlfriend shows me how much she loves and cares about me. but we get into fights all the time. like everyday. and i just want to do something for her to show her how much she means to me and how much i love her. i read all your other advice and i feel like your the person i can trust.
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you read ALL of my advice ? haha, wow. thats alot of reading :] plus, im flattered you feel like you can trust me ! thank you !
anyways, im sure she knows how much you love her. reaching out to me, a stranger who you dont know, is pretty much showing how much you love her. [even though she probably doesnt have a clue youre asking me this]
fighting is healthy.. but all fighting is different. if you are both just getting into arguments everyday or most days, then thats not bad at all. trust me, its totally fine, especially as you get further into your relationship since you get comfortable with eachother or even doubtful/scared. so im sure she understands how much you love her, despite the fighting.
however, if its "i want to break up with you" kind of fighting, where youre literally going to break up everyday, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship and ask yourself if this is worth more of your time and if youd be better off/happier without her and the stress of basically breaking up everyday. otherwise, its normal.
back to your question: if you REALLY want to do something for her, it depends on her personality. if shes one of those girls who wants to be pampered and have you spend money on her.. then do that. buy her something for an anniversary.. like something engraved with your initials and date or something ... creative things :] or take her out to dinner, but surprise her.. and only you pay.
orrrr, if shes more of the low-key type, just write her a note or card and leave them places where she'll find them. make mix cds.. stuff like that.
orrrrrr, if shes adventerous you could make her go on a scavenger hunt with little clues and stuff then at the end be waiting there with, i dont know, something.. just you and a hug or flowers or something. i dont know haha. just ideas :] you could also surprise her and take her to her favorite place.. like blindfold her and then do that. or you could go have a picnic somewhere.. creativity is key.
orr, you could even just stay in and cuddle with eachother, and you just treat her like a queen.
but seriously.. even if you dont do ANY of that, she should appreciate you for who you are and just love being with you.. without any of that because you seem like a great and caring boyfriend.
good luck ! hope i helped ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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