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Does this guy like me? If so how do I talk to him?
I work at a flower shop after school and this guy texted me saying he was comming in to get a attachment of flowers for his mom stepmom and grandma for mothers day. So he stayed around there with me and helped pick out and arrange the flowers we talked lots and he asked lots of questions about me like where I'm going to college in September and what I like to do and stuff. I thought we connected, the next day he texted saying one arrangment wasnt quite right so he came by to fix it up and we talked for about an other hour. Three days later he texted me saying your not in class :p does he like me?? I want to aeast be friends and how should I start talking to him more it's been 4 days since he last texted me I think. :s any advice? :)
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That is one of the most adorable things I've ever read on here!
Yess he likes you. The hanging around and coming back is a big sign, but texting you about something unrelated to your work is like a massive flashing sign blinking "HE'S INTO YOU!"
He texted you randomly saying "you're not in class :p" becauseee he wants to talk to you and that was the best he could come up with without sounding too eager.
Play it cool with him. Be just a little flirty, just a subtle kind of cute flirty. Send him a random, unexpected text. Not asking him out, just saying something casual like, "did your mum/stepmum/grandma like the flowers? :)" or you could say something a little bit funny. Just casual, not meaning anything. Guys love when girls act all casual, well guys that I know anyway, because everyone loves flirting and it gives them a bit of something to chase after.
Just be cute, a little flirty, nice, say funny things and maybe even do that thing where you make fun of someone but in a cute way. Eventually with the more you text, he'll either start asking "so, are you busy next week? do you maybe want to get some coffee or lunch?" or you could go ahead and ask him.
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When guys spend that much time talking to you and take that kind of interest in you they want to be with you. So now it is up to you to make things happen. He doesn't want to seem too anxious by texting you every day. In fact, a lot of women are hotter for guys who seem like you kinda have to fight for their attention. So text him back and tell him when your next off day is and say that you don't have any plans unless he wants to get together and do something with you. If he doesn't take the hint after that he is really dense.
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