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How to find a girlfriend
I am 16 male i'm a virgin i haven't had a girlfriend yet i'm nervous around girls and a little worried about getting close with a girl
i'm not ready to get serious or have sex yet my penis is not real big and i'm worried about getting intimate with them is that weird?
how do i stop being nervous around girls?
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I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 17, so don't feel bad about it. It took me until I was comfortable with myself and talking to guys to get to the place where I was ready to be in a relationship. Everyone has their own speed with that kind of thing.
Some guys I'm nervous to talk to, and other ones, like my boyfriend, it was pretty easy to talk to. You'll find a girl who it's natural and almost effortless to talk to; that could be the start of a good relationship. Trying to force it with someone isn't a good idea.
I'm sure you have heard this a million times, but just be yourself! You can start conversations with girls and some won't go anywhere and others will hit it off. It just comes on it's own time.
I find that special things come when you are least expecting it, so just relax and have fun, and before you know it you'll meet a special person.
And EVERYONE is nervous about their first time. Everyone! Girls and guys are self-concious about their bodies. Once you get comfortable with a girl, sex will come naturally when you are both ready. If you feel nervous and weird while doing it, then you probably shouldn't be.
The best advice I can give you is let things come naturally and don't push it.
Good luck,
-Abby
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