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i like somebody and we both have couples what to do?
i like a guy who is my boyfriend's best friend and he has a girlfriend too. at the beginning he gave reaction to me but later he stopped. i want him back so badly but the problem is with him i dont know why. what should i do exactly to make him want me?
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If you're already thinking about new partners, you need to break up with your current boyfriend since you aren't 100% committed to him. Don't have a boyfriend just because you like the attention.
Also, you can't "make somebody want you." That is because you have to be you and not act according to how you think people want you to. Otherwise, you will come off as one neurotic puppy. Besides, if he doesn't like the real you then he isn't suited for you anyway. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
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if you're in a relationship, you should NOT be trying to make anyone want you, especially not your boyfriends best friend.
and hes not giving a reaction to you because he has a girlfriend who he probably really likes and since you are both off limits, he's not going to give into you until you are both single because if he gave you a reaction before and isnt now, then that clearly means he is VERY into his girlfriend now.
so if youre not happy in your relationship, just get out of it. how would you feel if your boyfriend was doing this with your best friend ? if you dont care, then dont be with him. if you do care, then you need to be dedicated to him.
so instead of asking, "what should i do exactly to make [my boyfriend best friend] want me?" you should be asking, "what should i do exactly to make my BOYFRIEND want me?" or even.. "what should i do exactly to make my BOYFRIEND and our relationship better so we're both happy?"
i dont mean to be harsh, but its not fair to him that youre doing this and its not fair to you either because youre not being honest to you or your boyfriend.
good luck ! xxo.
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