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How do you heal a broken heart?
Im 17, male, a senior in high school about to graduate.
Just last night my girlfriend, who is a freshman, broke my heart, when she said that she wouldnt anytime soon. We talked this whole week and everything was just perfect. But suddenly, her whole heart changed overnight and she told me that she was losing feelings for me. The thing is, that since shes a freshman, her mom doesnt allow her to date, so that was why she broke it off with me because she was sick of sneaking around. It wasnt because of me, its all because her mom.
I was broken, but i at least wanted to spend my senior prom with her. And then she told me she couldnt go. It all happened yesterday, and i was shocked that i lost the best girlfriend i've ever had, and lost the chance to go to Prom. and prom is so close by that it's too late to ask anyone.
MY heart is broken and she is all i can think about, and everything seems dark to me. And what is worse, is that she seems completely happy on facebook and she's talking to a bunch of guys. I always have bad luck with this, and it always happens to me.
PLease help. How do you heal a broken heart?
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Your ex is a freshman in high school, She is young.
You are going off to college in a few months and to be honest once you leave high school you begin the next step in life. You start a job, You make friends, You go to a new school and you eventually meet people and as much as you may not think right now you WILL meet people. This girl is still in high school and likely she is just getting the hang of dating, She isn't serious. Life goes on, You have to try and be positive about the situation and look at it as a new opportunity. If you need it, Take a break from dating for awhile.
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Hey there,
Firstly, congratulations on the fact that you're soon to graduate HS :)
I'm sorry that you're heartbroken, but here is my opinion on it. She's young, and although she might have had fun times during the relationship, she's most likely not mature enough to handle a serious one. You say that she seems happy on facebook, talking to various guys. This means either she is trying to hide her sadness with friends, or she's becoming friends with all these guys and flirting (trying to see any potential boyfriends). Unfortunately, I think it's time you move on.. It can be hard, and may take some time, but I believe that you can overcome the heartbreak. Go to prom! Even if it's with friends... don't miss out on the event if you think you'll regret it later on.. I didn't go to my HS prom, but I definitely don't regret missing out.
Engulf yourself in a sea of friends and/or family! Improve any talents you may have, or learn more about something if you're interested. You are 17, you're just starting your life. Especially if you will be dorming out in college. Or perhaps you're planning to get a full time job, where you can meet more people and become more independent. You have endless possibilities, and that's how you need to see it. Positivity is the key... I don't know much about your plans but I hope I helped.
Take the time to meet more people as friends... who knows, you might meet someone special soon. So relax, think positively, because I promise you will soon heal over the break up and possibly find bigger and better things along the way. Good luck!!
Uniq =]
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