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Friends Backstabbed Me
So my class is going on a field trip and today we made groups. We had been planning our group for at least 2 weeks now, it was me and my 4 other friends. Finally for group sign up, one of my friends decides that it would be fair that we let others in the group as a first come basis. I thought that was bogus because I am the furthest away from sign up sheets and I would be the one kicked off. So I RUN to the sign up place and they let some other girl on instead of me!!!! I was furious! I wasnt mad at the girl who signed up, only my friend who ruined our plan! Then later on the girl who "replaced" me said that she was sorry that she took my spot. And I was like, its ok, whatever. But then I realised that she KNEW that it was my spot and STILL joined! What my question is: I am not ready to ever forgive my friend, but should I?
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Well,. they did replace you with someone else. which is so not cool. I would give her the 'cold shoulder' for a while and give your self time to breath. Is this the first time this has happened or has it happened more than 3 times? If it has happened more than 3 times you need to make it known to this girl that backstabbing you like that it Totally not ok. And see where it goes from there. This seems like a not very harsh backstabbing but you should talk to your friend about how it really hurt you that she wanted to replace you,. after you made the team plans.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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