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Could he be interested?
Okay, long story short, my family's favorite pastor at our church got fired. So my family along with a few others weren't happy about this at all and we contemplated moving churched until we founds out our pastor is holding a mini youth group/church type thing at his house. So, we stopped going to church and attended his house and still do. Now, the pastor that got fired usually runs it but sometimes he isn't there so his son does. He is 22 and I think he is majorly cute and my friend that I am there with says he looks at me a lot. I think she exaggerates sometimes but I've never caught her lying or doing anything that wasn't saintly. He talks to everyone in the small group except for me but I do catching him looking at me sometimes. He does smile a lot, he's a very sweet boy and the first time I talked at our small group, he looked right into my eyes, shook his head when I made good points and smiled when I finished. I want to know if you think he is maybe a little interested. The ice breaker for me is, every time my family and I go to leave, he walks us to the door. The one time we said our good byes, he was in the middle of a conversation and I thought he's to busy to walk us to the door but I turned around and there he was. That's the ice breaker for me because he is never like that with the other families. Thanks for any advice you can give. (:
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Hi,
Wow, he sounds really nice! And how great that you get to see some of his good character traits. This is really helpful for deciding if you would like to be with him.
I think that he could be interested in you. The looking straight in the eyes thing, the walking you to the door thing especially as he doesn't do that for others, and also because you said he talks to every one in the group except you. Thats probably because he likes you and is feeling awkward/excited/happy about you.
Is there any way you can catch him for a conversation alone?
Plan some interesting open ended questions to ask him about himself, such as:
What's it like being the son of a pastor?
What sort of things do you like to do for fun?
What things do you do in your job/study?
If you are interested in him, can you tell your parents and get them to tell his parents, and maybe just your two families can do some things together, like go to the park or zoo or anything, so you can see if your relationship builds from there?
I really like the idea of not just dating a bunch of guys, but holding out until you find the guy that you like, and who likes you enough, to get married, and then courting (dating with the intention of being together forever) So lovely and romantic, and it has wonderful pay offs, like increased trust and a really awesome sexual connection. Much deeper.
Maybe you could run a prayer group together, where you go somewhere and pray over the city or town you live in?
I would really like to talk to you more and hear how it goes, so please write back through the 'ask bewise a question' button!
And OBEY & PRAY! That God will bring you the man that will be the best for you!
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