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BIG MISUNDERSTANDING!
theres been i BIG misunderstanding...i post lots on here about paralyzed and car crash and a pool incident and cancer. some things i put on here are from my friends though. they know i get on here but dont wanna make an account so i write about them on here as me and tell them all of your feedback. appearently i am lieing about everything according to whoever runs this thing...but by the way, im definently not...MY life story...my TRUE life story...3 years ago my parents DID get arrested for child abuse. i went through months of emotional and physical abuse therapy. last year i was diagnosed with heart cancer and had to have heart surgery. last month, my cancer was making progress and healing so i didnt have to spend so much time in the hospital. so i was going to my teams softball game just to watch and me and my aunt were in a car accident. i am paralyzed from waist down for a few years if therapy goes good. i went to the hospital and met this other girl a year older then me (im 14)....her friend pushed her in a pool and became paralyzed for life and now her friend wont speak to her....so please help me and let me know what u think..?
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Zane is absolutely correct.
YOU own your account. Only questions YOU ask should be submitted through your account.
If your friend wants to ask a question then he or she will NEED to open their own Advicenators account.
If they post questions through your account, I think it goes against the Terms of Service Agreement. I think accounts that do this can be banned or completely removed.
There are people here who pay $10 for the yearly subscription so that we can see previous questions asked on one account--so that we can have a little bit of extra back-history when supplying you with good advice. Your identity is still completely secure; however, if we end up seeing questions from you, your friend, and your neighbor's best friend's dog's lover then it's not helpful to us. Things get all mixed around and the advice we supply might not actually pertain to you.
Anyway, I'm sorry things are happening with you the way they are. You need to speak with a qualified therapist. Nobody here is going to be able to make things "OK" again. Nobody here is qualified to help you through the last stages of your life if the cancer worsens and nobody here can tell you if you'll ever be able to regain the ability to walk. While some of us have gone through this (or may be going through this) these things vary GREATLY on a case by case instance.
I could be in a car wreck, be paralyzed, and regain the ability to walk in a year. On the other hand, you could have a similar car accident and never be able to walk again.
I could have heart cancer and die from it in 3 months. You could battle it for 3 years and not ever die from it.
So, I (along with other Advicenators) can provide you with very little:
I'm sorry.
I cannot fully, 100% relate to your issues.
Please talk to a therapist.
Talking to us, strangers, and your friends and family will only get you so far. It's hard to relate to situations like this. You need, NEED, therapy.
I do have a degree in psychology so I know what I'm saying when I tell you to seek a professional. Issues that you're going through, and have gone through, can create mental problems, too. Talking with a professional as early as possible will help you work through a lot. Seek help from a person who is qualified to provide that help.
P.S. I, too, would have been confused with previous questions you've asked. People who have heart problems (cancer, surgery, defects) are not ALLOWED to play sports so it's confusing that you've had this cancer/surgery and enjoyed playing sports up until you were paralyzed. It's like, "Whoa, wait...what? That doesn't even make sense!" I mean, there's A LOT in your previous questions that make it sound like they might not be completely truthful, but, hey, that isn't up to me to decide, obviously.
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If you have questions to ask then you should be the only one asking questions on your account. Perhaps you could suggest this site if your friends need advice?
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