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my best friend is gone
Me and one of my best friends from my softball team have been fighting so much recently! She is who i told everything to and now i have noone to talk to. She is the one that needs to apologize but shes ignoring me. What should i do? and dont say for me to talk to her about it cause i have.
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my best advice: ignore her and let her come to you.
I had a big fight with my friend and i know it might sound selfish but she's the whole reason the fight started. I was so stubborn and didn't want to say i'm sorry first, because she started it. I tried talking to her but she didn't want to hear it. so I just got fed up with her and the problem and ignored her for a good 3 or 4 weeks.
At first i felt lonely.. nobody to talk to.. but after 2 weeks I felt good :) i felt independent. I felt happy. She wasn't around to boss me. or make me feel worse about myself. or to push me down and cause problems.. it felt good. then eventually I started talking to other friends and got close with them.
its been 3 months and now she is begging to forgive me. she wants to be my friend again and says shes sorry. I could forgive her and let her be my friend, but what would I learn from that?? I decided not to be her friend because I've been happy without her around to boss me and make me feel bad. I'm so glad I ignored her and left her alone. Not only do I feel better about myself, but I get the pleasure to laugh at her face when she's begging me back. hahaha.
but anyways, i suggest you just stop talking to her and see where it goes from that. some friendships just end right then an there.. some will take a break.. and some friendships might get back together if they are mean't to be.
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