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Virgin again?
So here's my question.. What exactly does it mean when someone says "I'm a virgin again"? My boyfriend told me that. When we first started talking he told me this. I mean, I guess it might pretty much mean what it says but I'm not sure. When he first told me this I guess I didn't see the "again" part. But one day we were talking about sex and he told me about this other girl he had sex with and I was so surprised! I thought he said he had never had sex since he was a virgin but I guess I missed the "again" part.
How in the world can you be a virgin again? If you had sex in the past then you arent a virgin.. Like what the heck.
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I think he chose the wrong words. He means that's he's not a virigin but he's not sleeping around with anyone at the moment. Once you have sex, you're not a virgin and that's that.
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He may wish or say hes a virgin again to make you not think hes hoeing aroung or what ever. but there is no way you can become a virgin again.
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It means they don't care about the physical reality, but view their virginity as something religious and/or spiritual.
They have defined themselves, as spiritually virginal. As pure.
There is not objective, physical way to reclaim virginity (for women, there is a sugary that replaces the hymen, but that is not quite the same thing). There is only spiritual and religious beliefs.
You should ask your boyfriend to clarify. It's important for you, as his partner to understand his spiritual beliefs about virginity and his past sexual history.
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It's kind of like that saying of being born again. You have a new take on life. But in his case it's sex. It's kind of being celibate. Your never a virgin again but he's trying to not have sex I suppose.
Lillian
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