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Theres a guy... I dont know what I want?


Question Posted Saturday April 9 2011, 5:53 pm

15/f
I work with a guy that I think I really like. We started out totally platonically but we've become closer, and after a while he kissed me. Proper kissed me. Then a week later he kissed me again and sort of fingered me - I was in a bad mood that day, couldn't be bothered to fight him but I made him stop pretty soon - and then left it at that. We were both sober. He used to text me a lot but then he just sort of stopped. So it's been 3 weeks since I got with him last and over 1 week since I even spoke to him.

To start with I only wanted casually to get with him, but now I just want to either be with him or not even know him and forget him.

He's a bad boy too, I KNOW how bad he was to his exes, due to being his close friend for a year before this all. He cheats, smokes, etc...

Thanks xx


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Additional info, added Saturday April 9 2011, 5:55 pm:
Oh shit I forgot the question! Does anyone know how I can find out where I stand with him? It's killing me not knowing. Imma little drunk atm :L xx.

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lightoftruth923 answered Sunday April 10 2011, 4:13 am:
To find out where you stand with him, you're just gonna have to ask him. You'll just keep on guessing and won't figure anything out.

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Gabiie answered Saturday April 9 2011, 7:01 pm:
be direct with this guy.
not to be harsh or anything but i think he was using you for the action.
if your direct with him he will give you a direct answer, you can both work from there, and see how you feel.

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