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just a hook up...
so basically me and this guy josh have been dating on and off for several months.
im always the one dumping him.
but recently we've been talking ALOT, and acting as a couple over the phone.
he tell me all the time how much he likes me and how hes gonna ask me out. but i tell him i want to hang out first. i do like him, but im not sure if its in the relationship kind of way.
im not physically attracted to him, but i do like his company.
im going on a camp very shortly and im worried i will hook up with someone and he'll find out.
i dont want to hurt him but i dont want to loose him either...
please help me!
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he sound really sweet and i think you should be with him well its your choice and wat ever you choose just make sure its the right choice
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oh goodness... please stop leading this guy on..
i know how you feel. i've been in the same exact position as you. I hooked up with a guy and liked him, but at the same time wasn't sure if I wanted to be in a relationship with him. you want to know what happened..? DISASTER... we fought for so many weeks and all hell broke loose. drama drama drama... and then some more drama. all because i couldn't make up my mind about him.
so please take my advice, because i've had experience.
stop leading him on. it will hurt him. it will hurt you. it won't end in a good way.
make your decision now. either choose to be in a relationship with him and be COMMITTED to it.. or stop hooking up with him. either way you go, stop leading him on. hooking up with him is not going to help.. no matter how much you and him enjoy it. let him know you need to think about this before you make another silly mistake like hooking up.
oh and by the way, i can tell you're young and still immature because you're mentioning "hooking up"... hooking up is not a good thing sweetie.. all it does is cause problems and drama. if you want to hook up with a guy, be prepared to be called a slut and hoe. and truthfully, thats not a good name to be called..
but hey, its your reputation.
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So he tells you he's going to ask you out, but doesn't, you're not attracted to him, and you want to hook up with someone who isn't him. Sounds like you have the freedom to do whatever the hell you want, and your business is a giant case of not his. You cant really just not do stuff because you don't like him. He can either take it like a man and accept that you don't want to be in a relationship with him, or he can cry and you can hook up with guys who aren't basically girls.
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